It seems like the bigger issue here is this: a 'dumb' suspension is a compromise for many requirements and conditions because it reacts the same way to any input. A skateboarder, like an active suspension, can adapt on the fly for any bump, ramp or whatever. Replace his brain with a command that says "bend knees at 100 lbs/inch" and you end up with the same problem.
You could set up a desert racer to perfectly absorb a particular bump without upsetting the truck at all - but it will be crap everywhere else.
Friction may be a concern, but it seems to be secondary to other issues.